By Twiine Mansio Charles
As I pen this article, my heart bleeds with indignation and sorrow. I am compelled to speak out against the reprehensible behavior of some individuals in our society, particularly self-proclaimed “activists”, politicians, and celebrities. These individuals have turned the noble act of giving into a selfish spectacle, exploiting the vulnerable for their own gain.
Under the guise of philanthropy, they swoop in with cameras in tow, capturing every moment of their “good deeds” for the sake of social media likes and followers. The recipients of their “kindness” are often left feeling vulnerable, exploited, and disrespected. The very people who need genuine help and compassion are instead treated as mere props in a twisted game of self-promotion.
What’s even more egregious is that some of these recipients are so vulnerable that they cannot even consent to the publicity. They are forced to endure the intrusion of cameras and the attendant fanfare, all for the sake of the giver’s ego. This is not only a betrayal of trust but also a gross display of ignorance and insensitivity.
And, to my utter dismay, even some medical professionals have been complicit in this charade. They stand by, watching as the privacy of their patients is violated, all for the sake of a photo opportunity. The Hippocratic Oath, which demands that medical professionals uphold the confidentiality and dignity of their patients, is flagrantly disregarded.
But that’s not all – these self-aggrandizing individuals often show up with paltry donations or, worse still, offer nothing more than empty words of encouragement. They then proceed to plaster their social media platforms with images and stories, insinuating that they are great philanthropists. It’s a shameful display of hypocrisy, and one that I refuse to stand idly by and watch.
As the wise words of Maya Angelou caution us, “Do the best you can until you know better. Then, when you know better, do better.” It’s time for us to do better. We must recognize the harm caused by self-serving philanthropy and demand more from ourselves and others.
I want to be counted among those who reject this cheap, self-serving approach to philanthropy. Instead, I advocate for genuine, unconditional, and meaningful giving. Giving that prioritizes the needs and dignity of the recipient, rather than the ego of the giver. Giving that respects the privacy and autonomy of those being helped. Giving that seeks no reward, no recognition, and no accolades.
But let us not forget the far-reaching consequences of such actions. Not only do they cause harm and insecurity to the vulnerable individuals being exploited, but they also put the givers themselves at risk. By prioritizing their own self-interest over the well-being of others, they open themselves up to scrutiny, criticism, and even ridicule. Moreover, their actions can inadvertently perpetuate a culture of mistrust, making it even more challenging for genuine philanthropists to make a positive impact.
As we approach this festive season, I urge you all to reflect on the true meaning of giving. Let us strive to be better, to do better, and to give better. Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a safe, peaceful stay. May our actions be guided by compassion, empathy, and kindness, rather than self-interest and a desire for fame.
Twiine Mansio Charles (SSC) is also the Chief Executive Officer of The Third Eye Consults (U) Ltd
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